Nigerians have reacted to a post made by Pastor Adeboye on social media telling his son to fire his secretary in order to keep his family.

The General Overseer of The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye took to his Twitter page to talk on marriage as he shared a story about his son and his son’s secretary which has led to a lot of controversies by twitter users.
In one of the tweets, he said;
“One of my sons once told me that he was always excited to resume in the office every Monday because he would get to see his secretary again. I told him to fire her immediately. Nothing and no one is worth your marriage”
Today, I will be focusing on the married. It is sad that many married people are still having crushes with persons apart from their spouses.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
If there is any fellow aside from your spouse you are admiring unduly, you must see such a person as the devil and get rid of them immediately.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
One of my sons once told me that he was always excited to resume in the office every Monday because he would get to see his secretary again. I told him to fire her immediately. Nothing and no one is worth your marriage.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
What is a married woman doing on the phone with another man for countless minutes? Why would a married man be spending so much time with another man’s wife? Why would you prefer to discuss intimate issues with your “friend” of the opposite sex instead of your God-given spouse?
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
Oh, you may say “I am not doing anything with the fellow; we are just friend.” That is exactly where it starts from. The devil knows you are a Christian and would not fall for someone just like that.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
So, he makes you become good friends with the fellow and before you know it, you would have fallen. May you not fall for any strategy of the devil in the mighty name of Jesus. If you have any friend that you talk to more than your spouse, break that friendship now.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
Proverbs 5:18 has this to say:
“Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.”
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
Spend more time with your spouse and make him/her your confidant. Exchange compliments. The reason many people have crushes outside their marriage is mostly due to a distance between the couple.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
They no longer communicate as they used to. When they talk, it is only on serious issues about the children or other family needs, instead of talking/gisting about just anything as they used to in the early days of their marriage.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
They no longer go out to fun places or take walks together except they are going for family functions. If there is no distance between yourself and your spouse, no crush can come between you.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020
No one should be closer to you or know more about you than your spouse.
— PastorEAAdeboye (@PastorEAAdeboye) January 29, 2020